You can also chat with an attorney in your country to see what your rights are and if they can possibly draw up a contract for you to use for your position.
Everyones situation is unique. Being prepared for the unexpected is your best option when doing surrogacy abroad. Ask if you are able to have a mobile office while in Mexico. Let your employer know that you value your position and their understanding about your life goals to start a family.
I…unfortunately did not have this luxury with my employer. They held my position for as long as they could but my stay in Mexico was much longer than anyone anticipated.
If you are not able to work from the hotel while in Mexico and your employer cannot hold your job you need to have a back up plan in place. Whether it's money saved or a side job. Preparing yourself and your future family for the what if's is being a responsible parent. I have seen some couples post a kickstarter ad to help cover the costs of traveling expenses during surrogacy. It's not a bad idea. Your family and friends will be happy to assist you and even share the post. For more information check out https://www.kickstarter.com/?ref=nav
I have also seen couples contact their religious groups for financial assistance. My friends temple helped raise money for her IVF treatment and then surrogacy expenses. You never know unless you try. In this case, it's worth a shot.
Perhaps reproductive technology is the best thing that could have happened to our civilization. Mexico or Ukraine? We chose Ukraine. My child was born through surrogacy in one of the Ukrainian clinics (Feskov Human Reproduction Group). Whereas previously infertile couples were doomed to the absence of their own children, now, thanks to IVF and surrogacy, they can become parents. Regarding surrogacy, I found a Ukrainian law translated into English. I advise anyone interested to read it.
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